From the awakening and the development of feminism, to the formation of the Cinderella complex, much attention has been paid. As we know the reason of the popularity of Cinderella complex is patriarchal rule forces that reigns the world, the only way to remove this psychological problem is the reconstruction of the concept of gender relationship. This essay tries to find some reasons for the popularity of the Cinderella complex by some analysis of the developing of Cinderella mode and Cinderella complex, thus giving some measures.